What is DBT? \tWhat can I expect from DBT? \tWhat components make up DBT? \tWhat are the DBT skills? What DBT is DBT stands for Dialectical Behavior Therapy, a type of therapy originally created for the treatment of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). DBT is still the main therapy for those with BPD, but also extends to help those with eating disorders, mood disorders, and many other disorders too. DBT teach people skills to give the person a tool kit of coping strategies. This helps to improve the reaction to crisis, regulation of emotions, relationships and other factors in their lives. Over the sessions, the person will slowly learn different skills, and how to use them in real life, so that they may experience less distress in their life. What to expect from DBT DBT is set up to involve both an individual and group component. DBT requires both a commitment to attending the therapy, so that the person may get the most out of it as possible, as well as the commitment to practice the skills learnt during the week. The group sessions are run with in small groups, usually about 3-20 people depending on the location and demand. The average group runs for 2 hours. In these sessions, you learn new skills through talking, handouts and practice. There is also time to speak about how you went during the week with practicing the DBT skills. The point of the group therapy is that you learn from each other, and find new ways to cope with the distress brought on by the illness you\u2019re suffering. The individual session of DBT are run with either a psychologist, nurse or other healthcare member who has had relevant training in DBT. The sessions usually last around one hour, and give the patient a chance to discuss the issues that came up for them during the week. They are also given the chance to talk about the new skill, or skills, learnt in the group DBT sessions, and how they feel about implementing it. The therapist may give the patient time to practice the skill in the session, or discuss how and when they could use the skill, and what the barriers would be. The components that make up DBT There are four modules that make up a DBT skills group. These are: \tCore Mindfulness \tDistress Tolerance \tEmotional Regulation \tInterpersonal Effectiveness These four modules aim to give the person a strong set of skills, of which they can rely on to reduce stress, suicidal feelings and crisis. What the DBT skills are First Module: Core Mindfulness Mindfulness is a concept that involves meditative exercises to bring a person to the present, rather than focusing on what has happened or what might happen. It helps a person to be in the moment, and pay attention to the current sense, feelings and emotions without passing judgement on those feelings. There are three main points in Core Mindfulness \u2013 the \u201cWhat\u201d skills, the \u201cHow\u201d skills and Wise Mind. \tSKILL: Observing, Describing and Particpating The \u201cWhat\u201d skills involve observing, describing and participating. Here we follow these steps: \tObserve: Look at your surroundings, the physical sensations you feel, what you smell, hear and see \tDescribe: Use non-judgemental phrases to express what you observe (eg. I see a brown desk. I hear my cat cleaning. I feel the pressure of the chair underneath me. I smell eggs in the frying pan) \tParticipate: Fully focus on what you\u2019re doing in this moment, by letting yourself see, hear, feel, smell and taste all those things that you\u2019re describing If other thoughts or feelings appear whilst observing, describing, or participating, you are taught to use a \u201cTeflon mind\u201d, and just let the thoughts slide past, and continue focusing on the present moment. \tSKILL: Non-Judgementally, One-Mindfully and Effectively The \u201cHow\u201d skills involve thinking non-judgementally, one-mindfully and effectively. \tNon-Judgementally: Looking at things as facts, rather than seeing things as all the way to one side. For example, don\u2019t label things as good, bad, fair, unfair, etc. Label things as they\u2019re happening. For example: Think \u201cI reacted overly aggressive when my mum asked me to wash the dishes\u201d instead of \u201cI acted so bad when I reacted that way when my mum asked me to wash the dishes\u201d. \tOne-Mindfully: Using the \u201cWhat\u201d skills from above to focus on only the current moment. \tEffectively: Focusing on what works and what is effective, rather than what we feel we \u201cshould\u201d do. For example, you may feel like you should go help someone who is struggling, but what has worked in the past is avoiding triggers. In this case, you put yourself first, as this is effective and what works. Using these skills can help you to focus on the present, to be mindful of yourself and your feelings without letting yourself believe in extremes. \tSKILL: Wise Mind Wise Mind is the focus of balancing the emotional mind and the rational mind. It works by thinking about the emotional and rational mind as two polar opposites. In a situation, we often react leaning to one side of those minds. What Wise Mind does is gets you to focus on the situation and balance it out so that you\u2019re right in the middle of the emotional and rational mind. Example: You didn\u2019t get the job you applied for, and you\u2019re now thinking that you\u2019re absolutely horrible and telling yourself of course you didn\u2019t get it. Using Wise Mind, you look and see that you\u2019re focusing only on the emotional mind. Try to think of what the rational mind would say in this situation: there\u2019s always another job, at least I tried, maybe the next one I apply for will be better. By utilizing the rational mind this way, you\u2019re balancing out the two minds so that you\u2019re sitting in the middle ground: Wise Mind. \u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014- Module Two: Distress Tolerance The skills of Distress Tolerance carry on from those learnt in Core Mindfulness, as it uses the skill of accepting and being non-judgemental. Distress Tolerance is based on learning to recognise negative situations, and their impact, and finding a way forward, rather than becoming too overwhelmed. Distress Tolerance is made up of multiple skills. This includes ACCEPTS,\u00a0 IMPROVE, Self-Soothe, Pros and Cons, Radical Acceptance, Turn The Mind and Willingness vs. Willfulness. \tSKILL: Distract with ACCEPTS ACCEPTS is a tool which uses multiple distractions to take the mind away from overwhelming thoughts for a period of time. The distractions of ACCEPTS involve: \tActivities \u2013 participating in activities you enjoy \tContribute \u2013 help others in your community \tComparisons \u2013 compare your current situation to how you have previously felt in a worse state \tEmotions (other) \u2013 cause yourself to feel different emotions by engaging in things that challenge those thoughts, eg. do something that make you feel happy or laugh \tPush Away \u2013 push the situation again and force something else to take up first priority in your mind \tThoughts (other) \u2013 force your thoughts to focus on something else \tSensations (other) \u2013 do something that has an intense sensation, different to the one that you are feeling, such as eating a chili or having a cold shower These distractions can help to manage distress, by taking the mind off the distressing thoughts and focusing them on something different. \tSKILL: IMPROVE the Moment IMPROVE the Moment \u00a0is a set of skills which help a person to relax, instead of feeling the intense emotions that they are struggling with. IMPROVE the Moment involves: \tImagery \u2013 imagine relaxing scenes, or things that please your mind \tMeaning \u2013 find meaning or purpose for what you are currently feeling \tPrayer \u2013 if you are religious, pray to your god, and if you are not religious, repeat a calming and reassuring mantra to yourself \tRelaxation \u2013 relax your muscles and breath in deeply \tOne thing in the moment \u2013 focus your entire attention on what you are doing now \tVacation (brief) \u2013 take a break from what you were previously doing for a little while \tEncouragement \u2013 remind yourself that you can get through this Using these skills can help a person calm down from the distressing emotions that they\u2019re feeling, and keep focused on the moment. \tSKILL: Pros and Cons Pros and Cons is a skill where you either physically or mentally list the negatives and positives in a situation, to help come to a conclusion about what you can do to positively influence, or accept, what has happened. In DBT, this goes in-depth to look at both the long-term and short-term pros and cons. Example: Situation \u2013 Should I stop self-harming? Short term cons \u2013 I don\u2019t know other ways to cope Short term pros \u2013 No scars, no hiding my emotions, better coping Long term cons \u2013 May miss self-harming, will have to learn new coping skills Long term pros \u2013 No scars, I can improve the way I cope, better relationships, aiming for recovery \tSKILL: Self Soothe Self-soothing is about using your senses in a way that brings comfort to you, and grounds you. The main aim is to engage all of your senses in a way that promotes self-care and comfort. Example: Touch \u2013 soft pyjamas Smell \u2013 scented candles Sound \u2013 favourite happy songs Taste \u2013 cup of tea Sight \u2013 photos of people you love or pets \tSKILL: Radical Acceptance, \u00a0Turn The Mind and Willingness vs. Wilfulness Radical Acceptance can be a hard skill to understand and master. It\u2019s about accepting situations that we can\u2019t change for what they are. This includes minor situations, all the way to trauma. It\u2019s about accepting the situation, so that you can make peace within yourself. \u00a0You do not have to like something, or be happy with it to accept it, and sometimes accepting things is an ongoing process. The skill involves asking: can I change it? If I can, I will. If I can\u2019t, I need to accept this. \u00a0Radical Acceptance means that you accept that you can\u2019t change it, so that you don\u2019t keep fighting to find ways to try to adjust things. Turn The Mind fits in here with Radical Acceptance. This skill involves turning your mind from the focus on trying to change things onto the healthier alternative of trying to accept things. Willingness vs. Wilfulness is another one that fits in here \u2013 it\u2019s about being willing to try to accept things for how they are. \u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014- Module Three: Emotional Regulation Emotional regulation is all about managing strong emotions that are hard to cope with, such as depression, anxiety or anger. It works by reducing vulnerability and building up positive thoughts and events. The skills learnt in the Emotional Regulation module include PLEASE, Mastery(Build), Opposite Action, Build Positive Experiences and Labeling Emotions. \tSKILL: PLEASE Master The skill named PLEASE, is aimed at improving health habits, which in turn promote a healthier and happier mind set. PLEASE involves: \tPhysicaL Illness (treat) \u2013 If you are sick or ill, get treatment for it \tEating (balanced) \u2013 Eat a healthy, proper diet with treats in moderation \tAvoid Mind Altering Drugs \u2013 Do not take illegal or non-prescribed drugs, as they can worsen moods \tSleep (balanced) \u2013 Do not sleep to long or too little \tExercise \u2013 30 minutes of exercise a day increases endorphins, which lifts your mood \tMaster \u2013 Building up on things that make you feel competent (eg. skills, hobbies) Using these skills helps you to reduce your vulnerability to negative emotions, by keeping yourself as healthy as possible. \tSKILL: Opposite Action Opposite Action is a skill which is used when a person is feeling an unjustified emotion. The person learns to do the opposite of what the urges are saying, which can help remove that unneeded emotion and replace it with something opposite. Example: The urges are telling you to binge eat. Instead, you do the opposite of those thoughts, and go for a walk. \tSKILL: Build Positive Experiences As the skill name suggests, this skill is all about adding positive experiences to your life. Think about the things you enjoy, things you want to try, and things that make you happy. These don\u2019t have to be big \u2013 even things just as reading a chapter of a book, or walking to the park can be things that people enjoy. Adding these experiences to your life a few days a week can really help to improve mood and reduce vulnerability to negative emotions. \tSKILL:\u00a0 Labelling Emotions Labeling emotions can help to identify how you\u2019re feeling, which leads to the ability to regulate that emotion. Here are the steps to think about when labeling your emotions: \tWhat was the event that prompted these emotions? \tHow did I react to that event? \tWhat are the sensations that I feel in my body? \tWhat would my body language look like to a strange right now? \tWhat urges am I getting? \tWhat is a healthy action I can take? Knowing the answers to these questions can help to identify emotions. It can also help to compare your feelings to a list of emotions. Knowing which emotion you\u2019re feeling means that you can take a healthy action to either help, or continue with the emotion, depending on whether it\u2019s a negative or positive. \u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014- Module Four: Interpersonal Effectiveness The skills learnt in the module for interpersonal effectiveness help to build up assertiveness and interpersonal problem-solving skills, such as learning to express needs, learning to say no and learning how to deal with interpersonal conflict. These skills help to build up the chances of the person reaching their goal or aim, without damaging either the relationship or their own self-respect. The skills learnt in Interpersonal Effectiveness include DEAR MAN, GIVE and FAST. \tSKILL: DEAR MAN The first skill, DEAR MAN, aims at helping the person get what they want or need when asking. DEAR MAN involves: \tDescribe your situation (use only fact, and be specific) \tExpress why this is an issue, and your feelings about it \tAssert what you need (use sentences such as \u201cI need\u2026\u201d) \tReinforce by repeating what the situation, feelings and needs, as well as providing the positive consequences that would occur from having that need fulfilled \tMindful of the situation (stay on topic, and don\u2019t let the past or future events distract you) \tAppear Confident to show that you need to have your needs met \tNegotiate with someone who is hesitant, to find a comfortable compromise Example: Describe - \u201cI\u2019ve been under a lot of stress lately\u201d Express - \u201cIt\u2019s been making me feel like taking my life\u201d Assert - \u201cI really need to go to an inpatient facility to stay safe\u201d Reinforce - \u201cGoing to inpatient will keep me safe, and help me work on feeling better\u201d You can use the \u201cMAN\u201d part whilst doing the DEAR section. Being Mindful - Stay on track with what you want. Repeat that it\u2019s what you need to get better. Appear Confident - Let them see that you really know you need this. Negotiating - \u201cI know that it\u2019s hard for you to hear that I need this, but how about we go to the hospital and see what the mental health team has to say?\u201d \tSKILL: GIVE The second skill is called GIVE, and is used in conversations to maintain relationships. GIVE involves: \tGentle \u2013 Use appropriate language, avoid verbal or physical attacks, avoid put downs,\u00a0 avoid sarcasm (unless the person is okay with sarcasm), be courteous and non-judgemental \tInterested \u2013 Act interested in what the other person is saying, maintain eye contact, ask questions, and do not get distracted whilst the other person is talking with you \tValidate \u2013 Show that you understand and empathize with the person and their situation, whether verbally, or through body language or facial expressions \tEasy Manner \u2013 Remain calm and comfortable during the conversation, use humor, and smile Using these skills ensures that you\u2019re respecting the person that you\u2019re having a conversation with, and can therefore maintain that relationship. \tSKILL: FAST The final skill in Interpersonal Effectiveness is FAST.\u00a0 FAST is used alongside other Interpersonal Effectiveness skills to ensure that the person\u2019s self-respect is maintained. FAST involves: \tFair \u2013 Be fair to both yourself and the other person \tApologies (few) \u2013 Do not apologize for anything that was effective, and only apologize once for anything that was ineffective \tStick To Your Values \u2013 Stay true to what you believe, and don\u2019t give in to things that people wish you to do against your own values \tTruthful \u2013 Don\u2019t lie, as lying only damages both relationships and self-respect This skill is very important in maintaining self-respect and your own needs whilst talking to someone else.