A lot of dating ebooks and dating articles about dating focus mainly on how to GET women. But what is probably even more important is how to KEEP the women you get!
Often a woman will lose interest in a guy because she simply gets bored of the relationship.
At first, everything may seem perfect.
She may be extremely happy with the guy.
But as time goes by, the activities that made her excited become part of her everyday life, and they just don’t give her the “spark” she used to get from it.
Think of it this way; if you had your favorite kind of food for dinner tonight, you’d probably really enjoy it.
If you had it again tomorrow night, you’ll still enjoy it, but slightly less because you had it the previous night.
And if you keep eating that food over and over, you will eventually grow bored of it and stop enjoying it, no matter how much you enjoyed it before.
Relationships are very much the same.
If you keep doing the same things for a woman, and trying to please her in the same ways, eventually the effect will fade and she will grow bored of it, leading to her getting bored of YOU.
So what do you do to stop yourself from getting bored of your favourite food?
Of course, you add some variety!
You can make different kinds of food, and when you make a kind of food that you have made before, don’t make it exactly the same way you did last time – add some new spices and ingredients to make it different!
This also applies to your relationship.
Not literally with food of course, but with how you treat your girl.
Let’s say her favorite thing to do is to go for long walks on the beach.
Don’t take her for a walk on the beach EVERY time you are dating her – take her out to her favorite restaurant, or to a play, or whatever else she is interested in.
Ask her what she feels like doing.
And next time you take her for a walk on the beach, spice it up a little bit by adding something – perhaps set up a picnic on a quiet spot on the beach.
Women make a big deal out of small things
Of course, it’s always nice to surprise her!
Find out from her friends about something she really likes doing or something she really wants, and surprise her with it!
Go out of your way to make her feel special.
Constantly think of new ways to make her smile and take note of what she likes and does not like. Keep a diary of it if you want to.
You could even change the roles around every now and then, like by letting HER set up one of your dates.
Do fun things with her – small, romantic things.
Or even do anything she asks you to do for one date.
Play little games with her.
As much as men often don’t understand this, women make a big deal out of the smaller things that men do for them!
So go ahead and start thinking of how you’re going to surprise your date next time you see her!
Remember to mix in the things she enjoys most with a few new and unexpected features. It’ll leave her wondering what you’re going to do for her next time!
Happy dating!
