Does the idea of finding your dream mate getting into your nerves as you had little success in meeting the right person? Before you throw in the towel, spare a thought that all is not that bad in the dating field; so stop pitying yourself and get going with the game!
In reality, luck has no role to play in this love game as widely misunderstood. If you have not been successful in meeting the perfect mate, it might be due to the fact that all is not hunky dory with the dating patterns you follow. Take pause to think about what could be wrong. If you turn your glance backwards you would see that all these days you were just too much preoccupied by the dating experience that you failed to focus on your true desires. What were the vital qualities that you were looking in your date and about those which you were ready to compromise?
The whirlwind of romance and dating experience might at times make you stray from the main core. Do not be carried over by fancies, keep your actions in tab to make sure that you are only meeting the right people; remember, bumping across unwanted alliances just in the name of dating might do more harm than good. The moment you realize that you do not have a burning desire to a person, then it’s time to call quits as it is meaningless to prop up a lifeless dating, which would not take you any further.
You might feel terribly bad for shattering the other person’s feelings, so make sure to walk off the relation in a gracious manner, without leaved too many ruffled feathers on either side. This is the key to a successful date; failure to decipher a casual fling with an emotional relationship might leave you in a soup. Though this may sound too prudish, this is how things work out in the unfathomable realm of dating. If you have been prolonging the date just to avoid disappointment to the other person, then you are moving towards a dead-end. All that is required is to spot out the right person; leave aside all other worries like the other people’s perception about you. What ultimately matters is whether you are happy or not.
Yes, first impression is indeed the best impression and you might have striven hard to build up an image on your date. However this is the only thing that you should focus on. In many cases, dating singles make a mountain out of a mole hill worrying about what the other person might think of them that they end up in a bundle of nerves- lost and out of focused from the main dating subject! In fact, what is more important for the success of a dating is to find out whether they are able to relate to each other or not, than anything else!
Personality and polished behavior is important alright, but putting too much emphasis might not be sensible as you land up nowhere amidst this stress, which is totally uncalled for. Instead, a better approach would be to analyze your true thoughts about the person; how you feel and about your date is more important in establishing a good connection. The apprehension of being single forever might also mar your vision and you will pick up a person whom you are not at ease just for the sake of it! Do not get stuck in the rut; be honest to yourselves and be sure of whom you want to date with. Your aim of meeting the right person would guide your way to a happy and strong relationship.
